Being Thankful
Yesterday, on Thanksgiving, we had nearly the same set of guests we have every year. The conversation was very good. Today, the day after, I am struck by how, even though it was a good time, it was not a great time. I realize now that there was not alot of meaning. Not bad, especially after my son's girlfriend joined us later. We do not know her well yet, so the conversation had to be light and in "getting to know each other" mode.
Next year, if I am in the same position, I should try to set the tone. Maybe a little exercise like going around the table, each person telling all of one thing they are thankful for.
I think that I am starting to move towards living life more deliberately. I am changing from letting life just happen to me. Both approaches are important. It is also important to discern when each is needed.
If I always "let God do it" and just pray, I miss opportunities to spread the grace He has given me. If I am always trying to spread the grace He has given me, I deny the grace he gives through others as well as grace that is directly given.
Jesus calls us to prayer and action.
Next year, if I am in the same position, I should try to set the tone. Maybe a little exercise like going around the table, each person telling all of one thing they are thankful for.
I think that I am starting to move towards living life more deliberately. I am changing from letting life just happen to me. Both approaches are important. It is also important to discern when each is needed.
If I always "let God do it" and just pray, I miss opportunities to spread the grace He has given me. If I am always trying to spread the grace He has given me, I deny the grace he gives through others as well as grace that is directly given.
Jesus calls us to prayer and action.