Being Thankful

Yesterday, on Thanksgiving, we had nearly the same set of guests we have every year. The conversation was very good. Today, the day after, I am struck by how, even though it was a good time, it was not a great time. I realize now that there was not alot of meaning. Not bad, especially after my son's girlfriend joined us later. We do not know her well yet, so the conversation had to be light and in "getting to know each other" mode.

Next year, if I am in the same position, I should try to set the tone. Maybe a little exercise like going around the table, each person telling all of one thing they are thankful for.

I think that I am starting to move towards living life more deliberately. I am changing from letting life just happen to me. Both approaches are important. It is also important to discern when each is needed.

If I always "let God do it" and just pray, I miss opportunities to spread the grace He has given me. If I am always trying to spread the grace He has given me, I deny the grace he gives through others as well as grace that is directly given.

Jesus calls us to prayer and action.

James & spiritual practices

My weekly bible study is in the book of James (Rick Warren series for small group ministry). I am so glad. I have always liked what I read in James, very practical, very applicable. I had a bout with idolatry (too much TV this weekend) and James 1:21 hit the bulls-eye... "Therefore, rid yourselves of all sordidness and rank growth of wickedness, and welcome with meekness the implanted word that has the power to save your souls." (NRSV)

Back to the spiritual practices that I tried to commit to last month and immediately failed at. It is spending time in prayer, meditation, and reading His Word, that puts my mind in the right place - putting on the armor of rightousness.

Oooooooo... small groups

The very old men's seed group in our church is finally leading an effort to start another men's seed group! For the last seven years, there has been only two men's seed groups that were around since time began, and they were, get this, closed to new members!

I understand that you can't grow a small group beyond small, but going seven years without a men's ministry is as ridiculous as not having any couples ministry at all, which my church lacks also.

God is teaching me organizational patience with my church.